Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The Empress has no Clothes!

Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame (Revelation 16:15).

Yes, summer is quickly approaching. Many Christians are beginning to discuss and reevaluate their thinking regarding whether one should wear clothes or glorified underwear when swimming publicly. I read a good article here at Mrs. Parunak's blog where she touches on reasons other than modesty for choosing to not swim almost naked. She says:

"I enjoy wearing the equivalent of a bathing suit (or less!) for my husband, and I feel infinitely more beautiful because it’s just the two of us. I would so much rather be my husband’s delicious secret than participate in pool side beauty pageants in which no woman ever feels like the winner."

Yet, there are certainly more reasons than that for not walking around in public practically naked. Scott Brown, in his article, Why I am Against Bikini Clad Girls and Bare Chested Boys Swimming in My Lake, wrote the following:"Over the last hundred years, we have had, as Jeff Pollard has said, 'The public undressing of America.' What was illegal in clothing 100 years ago, and would cause your arrest, is now popular and accepted everywhere — even in churches."

· 1890’s: Swimwear was modified street clothing

· 1910: Arms were exposed

· 1920: You would be arrested if you appeared in a modest 21st century bathing suit

· 1920’s: Legs and backs were exposed

· 1930’s: Cleavage was exposed and men began to swim bare chested

· 1935: Two piece bathing suits appeared with a small break between upper and lower half

· 1940’s: New fabrics appeared which hugged the body

· 1960’s: Navels were exposed

"Today: Anything goes... One piece suits with fabrics like skin that really leaves nothing to the imagination and bikinis of various categories prevail as normal.

"Today, the fashions are so pervasively broadcast over every media outlet that everyone dresses the same when they swim. Movies and TV have so popularized nakedness, that if you challenge it, you are not thought of as being very accepting. In fact, if you do cover your body it seems odd.

"Jeff Pollard says it this way, 'Fashion designers have used swimwear to undress America.' Who can deny this? It is as obvious as a fly on your nose.

"So it is time to shout it out with perfect clarity: The empress has no clothes! For the last two generations we have been told that swimwear is about fashion. They say, Fashion is neutral. Don’t criticize fashion, it is only fashion. No! It is public nakedness."

Want to see what bathing suits used to look? Take a pictorial walk down memory lane by visiting this site, which shows the change in bathing attire from the early 1800's to the 1920's:


I think I finally snapped to the fact that I'd been duped by the fashion industry when someone asked me why I was comfortable wearing something to the pool that was nothing more than colored, spandex underwear. Wow! I had never thought of it that way, but it was true. I would never invite friends over to lounge around in our underwear, but add a splash of spandex color (and a little water) to the mix and somehow it's pool side fashion!

Here's an excerpt from Raising Maidens of Virtue, challenging daughters to evaluate their thinking in this area:

"Would you feel naked wearing your nightgown or undergarments into a courtroom or church? What would your pastor and his wife think if you invited them over to supper, then answered the door in your underwear? Would they be shocked? Why do many of us think it is acceptable then to invite fellow Christians over for a pool party where everyone is wearing 'colored underwear'?"

It is true that there are certain things that may be appropriate for one event and not for another. For instance, no matter how modest my nightgown may be, I would never answer the front door wearing it! My bathrobe may cover my body completely, but I'm not going to lounge around in it when I have company and I certainly wouldn't wear it to the grocery store.

But we're not talking about appropriate styles for appropriate events, we're talking about public nakedness. There's no real way to conceal the private parts of our bodies in most modern bathing suits. The majority of bathing suits today leave little to the imagination.

So, what's a girl to do? Where do you find a bathing suit that is modest, safe to swim in, and doesn't draw attention (other than the fact that you're covered)? Thanks to the efforts of many Christians who are not sitting by and allowing the modern fashion industry to dictate what they have to wear, many new companies are springing up.

Wholesomewear.com is my favorite choice because their suits cover appropriately, they're lightweight and don't cling horribly when wet, and they're Christian owned. We've purchased their bathing suits for years.

There are also other businesses selling modest suites, as well as patterns where you can make your own. Don't let the modern fashion industry strip you of your...dignity everytime you go swimming. You do have a choice - this summer, wear clothes!

Free Downloads: Listen to Part 1 of a sermon by Jeff Pollard on Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America HERE. Part 2 can be found HERE. Or order his booklet here:


Order comfortable, modest, and lightweight bathing suits here:

27 earnest comments:

Step said...

Great post and one that's dear to my heart. I taught myself to sew about 4 years ago so that I could make my own modest clothes for my daughter since most fashion designers obviously have no idea what is appropriate for a 6yo girl!

I was very pleased to find that, with a little searching, there are indeed many on-line sources for modest swimsuits. I made one from this site for my dd last year http://www.modest-swimwear.net/testimonials.htm. In fact, if you scroll down the pictures a bit to July 5, 2007, that's my little girl in the bright blue suit. I feel is so important to support these small, home-based companies with positive feedback because they dare to go against the grain and stand up for decency. I get many comments on that suit, mostly positive, sometimes a perplexed look. I shared the site with another mom at swim lessons and she made one for her daughter as well. Maybe we'll make a modest fashion statment of our own -- let's hope!

Safe Thus Far said...

Bravo! Wonderful, timely post to bring this subject to light. And I agree, as your link states, that wearing modest swimwear not only makes you more modest, but more happy! Any of you ladies who haven't tried modest swimwear are in for a real treat. It is SO nice not having to hike your suit up in the front, or keep checking to see if your joke of an attached skirt is covering your thighs, or think about your appearance at all, for that matter. Go for a suit that is made specifically for modesty, and truly enjoy carefree swimming for a change!

KeepItSimple said...

Another great post, Stacy. We (my daughter and I) had to chuckle at a couple of the comments because of the images they brought to mind.

Unfortunately, in today's society, it is not limited to the pool side where immodesty abounds.

After attending two weddings recently, my daughter said, 'You think it would be okay to put on my wedding invitations 'If you have cleavage, we will ask you to leavage'?

Blessings to you -
Camille

Ginger said...

Awesome post! Love all the details. I just blogged about modesty too (but it was more directed to how we dress our little girls).
Reading the "Bad Bob" story in Created to Be His Helpmeet is what really opened my eyes.

Many blessings,

Clark Chatter

Simply Heart And Home said...

I enjoyed your post today. I'm not one for swimwear myself. I love walking along the beach wearing my regular street clothes (a modest dress or skirt and blouse) with sandals in hand. Thank you for the links you provided. I will check them out.

Blessings,

Gina

yoshi3329 said...

Thanks for the post, and just in time for the summer! I haven't gone swimming in years but it's still nice to know where to go when purchasing swimwear.

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Lauren Christine said...

Thank you for another wonderful post! I am so encouraged, once again.

blessings,
Lauren Christine

Tracy said...

Thanks so much for the great post! My young daughter was sitting with me as I was reading. when I clicked over to the wholesome wear site, she said that she'd like to have a suit like that! Guess what we'll be buying?

Linda T. said...

Just wanted to comment on the Wholesomewear swimsuits. My two daughters, ages 13 and 9, and I have been wearing their swimsuits for about seven years now. I LOVE the quality of the suits as well as the modest coverage. I would highly recommend them to anyone looking for modest attire for swimming.

Tully Family said...

Okay, I have a question for all of you ladies who wear modest swimwear. Do you go to pools to swim? My husband and I want to have our family wear modest swimwear & enjoy the water but when we tried going to the local YMCA, we were totally disgusted by what our eyes were exposed to! We can't put a pool in where we live now, so we have kinda opted out of the whole swimming thing. (The younger kids sometimes play in a kiddie pool or the sprinkler.) Just wondering how you all adress this! Thanks!

Step said...

To answer the question of do we go to pools to swim -- not really. Swim lessons are the only time we go to a public pool.

We live in Michigan, so we're surrounded by lakes and water and we do most of our swimming at the beach. Now, as you know, the beach is just as bad or worse as a pool for scantily clad people (male and female). The only difference is that you can spread out more at the beach, so it's not so "in your face".

We simply dress as we feel is right for our convictions and have fun. Sometimes people will ask about my dd's swimsuit and it's my hope that my answer will make people stop and say, "hmmmm...something to think about."

Karen said...

We try to go to the lake when it's "off hours" - earlier in the morning or at sunset - when it's less likely other "bathers" will be there.

We have had our daughters wear a bathing suit with a tank top and ong shorts on over it, which seems to work. However, we have some friends who dressed their daughters similarly, and when they went to a public waterslide park, the girls were told to either remove their outer coverings (t-shirt and shorts) or they couldn't go in, "Pool Rules". The parents were shocked. Now, we sew the items right to the swimsuits, so if we're ever faced with it, we can attest that they're all one piece!
:-)
Karen

Stacy McDonald said...

Hi Mrs. Tully,

That's a good question and one that has to be answered on an individual basis. Before we moved to Illinois (and to the country), we lived right next door to our Texas neighborhood's tennis courts and swimming pool. We built the house before our convictions about modesty began to grow.

We had only lived there about a year or two beore realizing that bathing suits didn't cover much more (and sometimes less) than our underwear did. And if our standards of modesty for street clothes were growing, how could we justify taking our clothes off for the sake of recreation?

Eventually, we realized there was no way we could continue to go to the pool and sit with our children in the middle of all the nakedness. It was a very a crowded pool. But even if the pool would have been slow, the life guards were practically naked - and our children were beginning to notice.

I think it hit me one day when my young son (I'm guessing he was about 3 at the time) was looking out our front window; he turned to me and asked why the girl walking down the street toward the pool wasn't wearing her clothes. I ran to the window wondering what he was talking about! LOL You can guess.

Anyway, we opted to use portable backyard pools and sprinklers to combat the long Texas summer heat. And we utilized the private pools of friends and relatives - which was more fun anyway (though it meant less frequent swim opportunities).

It's going to take a while to make a difference in our culture. I don't want my children desensitized to nakedness (any more than they are by living in America today). I think the whole process is an attack against the marriage bed - and godly seed.

We have teen girls who have eating disorders and seeking plastic surgery, young boys struggling with lust, mainstream movies and magazines becoming more and more pornographic - nakedness is becoming dull. It's supposed to be an exciting secret enjoyed openly within the beauty and sanctity of marriage.

Brandy Lynn said...

Stacy,

I plan on buying a Slimming Swimmer suit from Wholesome Wear today! I saw them via the link on your blog this winter, and thought that they looked great! Would you be willing to share what specifically you like about these suits (ie. the fit, the quality, the way they work in the water, etc.), rather than a general "they're modest" statement. And even share something you don't like about them? You won't sway my purchasing one- I'll probably purchase it before you reply (as the lady said she could ship it today if I called before NOON pacific- WOW!) Also, which suits have your family purchased- and were there things you liked better about one than the other? When our daughter is "big enough"- they don't make one in her size yet- we are thinking of buying the cuolotte one for her. TIA,

Tully Family said...

Thanks, Stacy for taking the time to answer my question in depth. (And thank you to the other ladies as well.)

You are right- it is going to take time to make a difference in our culture. And while it is a decision for our households to pray & consider, we need to be willing to make sacrifices to bring about those changes! I liked your comment "I don't want my children desensitized to nakedness." Well put!

Our family (and many of our friends) are blessed by your books and blog- thank you!

We will continue to enjoy our portable pools & hope to find a private one someday!
- Heather

By the way, three of our five littles are boys and we had some questions from them about why ladies were dressed (or should I say "undressed"?) the way they were at pools. Ugh.

Tracy said...

Mrs. Tully,

I believe that we know one another in REAL life, from Redeemer OPC! I clicked on your profile, but didn't see a blog. You can find me by clicking on my name!

Tracy

Tully Family said...

Tracy,

I just updated my profile so it shows our blog. I did not realize that it wasn't showing up. Thanks! Funny how small the world is- good to "run" into you!

Heather

Jennifer said...

Stacy, thanks for the link! Ever since you first mentioned bathing suits resembling underwear, I'd been wondering what your family used instead; now I know! Sounds like it'd be a good idea for me, too; I'm too shy to wear a regular bathing suit without a T-shirt over it.

"I think I finally snapped to the fact that I'd been duped by the fashion industry when someone asked me why I was comfortable wearing something to the pool that was nothing more than colored, spandex underwear."

Honestly, I can't believe someone said that to you! That was just rude, I think. You're the last person in the world who would be deliberately unmodest.

Brandy Lynn said...

I know this is an older thread, but I just wanted to leave an updated comment, seeing as I commented earlier... I bought a suit from Wholesome Wear (the slimming swimmer), and wore it while on Vacation at Wisconsin Dells this past week. I absolutely LOVED this suit!!! It's very lightweight, and it didn't cling at all! I didn't worry about anything "showing", and I didn't even have to once consider whether or not my "underwear" had shifted to reveal something that shouldn't have been! I was free to enjoy the water without feeling embarrassed or exposed! I would recommend the suit to others, too. Thank you for sharing this, Stacy!

Anonymous said...

I just read your passionate housewives book, and it was great! Thank you. I am engaged/ betrothed and it really got me excited about starting my marriage off right!I hope you have a moment to read this please! I am looking on your websites and I see a wonderful celebration of the old northern European culture and old American culture. I am from that culture as well, however my Fiancee is not. I live in south Florida which is a very diverse place. When I see your sites I am unaffected by the dress, music, culture because I am used to it. It's hard for others & the rest of the world to embrace just that way because in reality the colonial and victorian era comes from a small portion of the world & time. For others who I have recommended your site to who are not "White", have trouble accepting just this way. For them it paints a picture of narrow Christianity, such as dress, music, culture that only points to white as being the superior culture and that to be a true follower of Jesus you have to look like that. And its not an African-American grudge type thing either. Just Christians who want to feel accepted without feeling that their culture is wrong. It feels like to them you are trying to get women not only back to their rightful roles, but also back to the "correct" life of the old anglo way of living. It leaves out the entire rest of the world. I do not disagree with anything you say, and I love your blogs about getting back to purity and God designed gender roles. And I'm not saying you have to put up a face of a black girl, hispanic boy, or east Indian couple. To others it almost appears as if you are only catering to white families for Godliness. I truly believe that you have amazing advice and are not legalistic so my question for you is, do you feel that others can have different taste in clothes, music and culture and still glorify God? Living in such a diverse place I have grown sensitive to how others may view christians and if they only look like a certain way how can we reach them without coming across as legalistic, judgemental and narrow-minded? Thank you for your time. Your wisdom is such a blessing! It really challenged me!
-Ashley
Email: AshleyLauren8@aol.com

Stacy McDonald said...

Hi Ashley,

Thanks for writing. You wrote:

"so my question for you is, do you feel that others can have different taste in clothes, music and culture and still glorify God?"

Yes, of course.

You also wrote:

"For them it paints a picture of narrow Christianity, such as dress, music, culture that only points to white as being the superior culture and that to be a true follower of Jesus you have to look like that."

Your comment has me more than a little confused. How does my blog communicate that "white" is "the superior culture" and that "to be a true follower of Jesus you have to look like that?"

I am at a total loss as to how anyone would come to that conclusion. Can you be specific?

Godliness is not a "white thing." Modesty is not a "white thing." Some of the most modest and beautiful women I've seen in the world are Christian women in India. And theirs is a VERY different culture than ours.

But I don't live in India. :-) Thus my blog reflects who I am based on the scriptural convictions I have. I hope that answers your questions. If I've misunderstood you, please let me know.

Anonymous said...

Hi Stacy,
Thanks for responding to my comment. First I want to apologize if what I wrote offended you. I'm sorry I should have reread what I wrote to make sure I was being clear.

I, nor the other women think you personally were portraying these messages of "white Superiority", or narrow- mindedness. These other people loved your blogs but in truth we all felt tested. Which is a good thing. Let me try again :).

We want to be woman passionate for God. Just recently I went to a homeschool convention (where I purchased your book!) There were many christians there from all walks of life. If we don't dress old-fashioned (no offense), are we looked down upon those who do as deceived Christians, or less of one? We want to be true christian women.

I guess the point is without taking your whole busy day is, these women myself included, want to please our God. South Florida is another world, it's not like the mid west. Can we wear modern clothing, listen to secular music (no bad content of course), watch some movies, dance, etc and still be modest? Christian women who mostly talk about modesty dress the same and promote classical music only, no dancing, etc.. Like for example, I am used to classical music, my mother raised me on it. But my fiance who is from Puerto Rico is used to something very different. I love his family's culture and I want to raise my future children with both influences. I just don't want to be less of a Christian if I listen to Salsa music maybe even dance to it, wear shorts, or go to a movie.

And what I meant by the white thing is that most people in south Florida are from the Islands ex: Cuba, Jamaica, Puerto Rico, and so on. These cultures are loud, loving people. Europeans have a rich culture that is refined in propriety, education and "proper" behavior. Some women felt uncomfortable because they were not brought up on tea time, "courting", classical education such as learning latin, like I received. All these things are wonderful... But can they (we- since I grew up around them) keep their own culture and still be righteous Christians? Where do we draw the line? Thanks so much, your are truly a wonderful woman of God!
-Ashley

Stacy McDonald said...

Hi Ashley,

I wasn’t offended; just a little flabbergasted! But stranger things have happened. :-) I was trying to grasp what was making you think that we promote an outdated European culture. Just because we have tea parties or listen to classical music doesn’t mean that we believe these things are “the biblical way” for women to behave. LOL It just happens to be part of our lives and one way for us to express beauty in our lives.

But we can glorify God in many ways. I am a quarter Lebanese, so we have tried to include some of my birth family’s culture in our lives at times. You should have seen how much fun we had at our last Lebanese feast! Studying and preserving our family’s history can be a wonderful thing.

Also, I’m not from the Midwest – in fact we just moved to Illinois a year and a half ago. I grew up and lived my whole life (except 3 years) in the Houston area. Trust me; I am very familiar with MANY different cultures.

Also, just for the record, I don’t dress in “old fashioned” clothing. Any photos you see of my on my blog wearing a costume are because I was…wearing a costume! LOL As a family, we are involved in numerous activities where we have the opportunity to partake in historical events. You might find us in costume at a history conference, a historical dance, Liberty Day, or visiting Williamsburg, VA (where many people dress in costume). However, our every day dress is not that which would be considered noticeably “outdated.” You can go to our family’s slideshow on my blog and see that for yourself.

That being said, my daughters love to sew and one of my daughters is an accomplished seamstress who loves to study the history of dress. She has taken beautiful patterns from past centuries and borrowed what she’s liked from them to create new, beautiful dresses that are updated for today.

I have taught my daughters that they do not have to allow their wardrobes to be dictated by the commercial fashion industry – which is often heavily influenced by Hollywood. As Christians we can be the trend setters – in fact it is we who should be making fashion statements and leading the way.

So you may see occasional photos of my daughters wearing dresses from patterns Tiffany has created/invented herself – perhaps with various parts of the dress borrowed from several different eras of history.

It is unreasonable to imply that just because we share with others how we live, in our own family, that we might be suggesting that those who do things differently are "less Christian" or that we look down on them.

You said: “If we don't dress old-fashioned (no offense), are we looked down upon those who do as deceived Christians, or less of one?”

Again, I sure hope not. Perhaps there are those who do this, but I can assure you that we don't. I’m still not sure why you would have asked me, but again, I hope I’ve cleared up some of your concerns.

We do not advocate “no dancing,” “nothing but classical music,” or “no movies.” Maybe you have me mixed up with someone else. We just hosted a ball after our presbytery with pictures on my blog. Granted, it’s not the sensual dancing that is more popular today. It is group dancing that is respectful and “non-sexual” for lack of a better word.

Also, my husband just did a review of the new Narnia movie on his blog. We do watch movies, but we are very picky about the content, since media does help shape our thoughts and even the worldview of our children.

I’m certainly not going to tell someone what kind of music they have to listen to, but there are types of music that invoke lust. Music is a very powerful tool. It can invoke feelings of worship, melancholy, anger, peace, or romance. It can spur soldiers on to war, cause children to want to march or dance, and give us energy.

Your question is interesting and has probably been asked by many a missionary. Perhaps what you’re seeing is the difference between a country that has had a heavy Christian influence for centuries (Europe) and those that have not.

Many of the islands have been heavily influenced by voodoo and the worship of other gods. So I guess the question would be which parts of the culture can (and should) be retained, and which parts need to be rejected?

For instance, voodoo music or clothing that involves partial nudity has no place in the life of a Christian. But you can celebrate a culture by preserving some of the music, clothing styles, jewelry, food, dialect etc. Many of these things can and should be embraced and retained as part of the family history. For instance, if I were a missionary to Japan, I wouldn't insist they give up their beautiful (and very modest) robes and wear modest (or in some cases immodest) western clothes.

As far as salsa music and shorts: I’m not going to tell you which music or clothing you should embrace or reject. Pray and ask God to reveal these things to you. You’re welcome to read through the articles on my blog to help you think through some of these issues.

A certain music or manner of dress shouldn’t be rejected simply because it’s “different,” but if there are biblical reasons to reject certain music or clothing, then that’s a different matter all together.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for all your advice. You answered some concerns of others in a way that I could not.
Sometimes it's hard to communicate over typed words, but let me say I love the things you do with your girls. It reminds me of when I grew up visiting colonial williamsburg and having tea parties with my Mom. My home church is a reformed PCA church and I think no ill of what you do, in fact I admire it so much I want to do the same with my future family.
I feel a ministry to diverse cultures as ive been on mission trips to Peru and the Island of Grenada. It is crazy how even when home life and church surround you, little lies from the world creep in. I probably shouldnt have said anything. They were the concerns of others mixed in with what God is teaching me now, and I probably came off a little weird. I always talk about how there are so many strange people epecially on the internet, and I'm sure came off across as one! lol. I know God has to teach those other girls as well as teach me what Im going through. They have to accept their culture as well as others that may be more dominant and rid themselves of anything that doesnt bring glory to God. I do feel that I dress modestly but it cant hurt to be extra sensitive and give it more thought, because in reality what could be modest to one may not be to another. Ive never been the prodigal child but little sins in my youth would tell me that dress was not a big deal and wouldnt affect my christianity. But now that I am 22 and wanting to start my own family I am embracing what my own mother instilled in me. Amazing how that works huh? I truly admire what you do and I look forward to reading more of your blogs. In the case of other cultures, people have to deal with it right? At the end of the day Christian women who are bothored by others "modest" dress and culture, have to pray about it because it could be the Lord convicting them that something is not right. And instead of making a race/culture issue out of it, they should be praying for God to remove those boundaries and just concentrate on a common goal, and that is to glorify the Lord and enjoy Him forever! Again thanks so much for your input, your book was amazing and I'm giving one to all my friends. God bless you and your family!
-Ashley

~~ said...

Wonderful post. I am shocked at the bathing suits available for girls! How much less can we get ? Thanks for sharing.
Patricia

lady jane said...

I've tip-toe'd over from Tracy's at Unless The Lord and found your post on swimwear modesty to be excellent and aligned with our overall views.

In response to your comment about lifeguards wearing few clothes...

My daughter is a senior lifeguard at our community pool where she has worked four years running. This is not Baywatch! This is not a 'fun' little sidejob! Lizzie works 25-30 hours a week throughout the year as a guard.

All guards must wear appropriate swimwear under their uniforms. For women, swimwear cannot show cleavage or be french cut and must be navy blue or red. Their uniforms consist of baggy shorts that end about 3 inches above the knee and sleeved t-shirts, visor and for my daughter, a waistpack holding emergency equipment (because she is senior guard), and airhorn. The uniforms are issued by pool management and must be worn at all times. During swim lessons the female guard removes her t-shirt, only to reveal a heavy spandex suit that is up to the collar bone and renders her chest almost flat. She keeps her baggy shorts on. Two-piece suits are not allowed.

Male lifeguards must wear approved jammers (speedos in heavy spandex that are just above the knee) under their baggy guard shorts, which also go to the knee. The shorts and t-shirt are the same baggy style the women wear and cannot ride lower than the belly button. During swim lessons the male guard removes his shirt.

I do realize that this pool management is very different in its approach to guard-wear. Too many pools have management that could care less about guard-wear, much less the ongoing training of their guards for safety and lifesaving purposes.

My daughter's pool mgmt is also different in their approach of lifesaving. It is taken seriously. Training happens each week (2 hours each session). If you fail that particular session, you're immediately let go. Training also consists of surprise quiz’s in guard application and lifesaving technique through the week. They must sit on-stand in only a certain way, holding the 'save bar' just so with the cord in a certain placement. They switch positions every 15 minutes and check the pool sides and bottom every 5 minutes in their regular scan process. They must remain on top of their game, so to speak. A person’s life counts on it. My daughter has a number of 'saves' and the pool she works at has not had a drowning in over 20 years. I believe this is due to the intensity of training and high standards set forth by management. Their focus is on safety.

As to pool patrons, yes, Lizzie (my daughter) sees a variety of dress...or undress, from barely there suits to complete burquas worn by Muslim women (no, they don’t swim..their children do). But her focus is on the safety of each and every patron, not dwelling on what is being worn by women *or* men. I know there is a concern for men in seeing women so 'undone'. Since I am not a man I can only share what my husband, and Lizzie's beau (who is also a lifeguard in another town), have shared. While it's obvious a woman is barely clothed, it's also obvious that that particular woman is a lost soul. The proverb, roughly paraphrased as "like a gold ring in a swine's snout is a beautiful woman who lacks discretion."

Oh dear, I fear I've written an epic post.

Hannah said...

Here is a link for Very Modest Swimsuits:
- modestswimsuits.co.uk